6 Tips for Negotiating with Your Mind

Wednesday, November 29, 2017


Forcing yourself to do something is not always easy. Why? Because our minds often behave like a child. Did it happen that you ask the child to work, instead of playing? The child will most likely not approve of your offer and will try to avoid work. If he does not succeed, he will do this work with reluctance and laziness, so that you will lose patience and free his from work.

The same thing happens with your mind. An intelligent person is a person who can think that he uses his head (this does not do all and not always) and has the necessary material for this (objective knowledge).

In the everyday sense, a smart person is one who knows a lot and does all paper writing well. But, generally speaking, intelligent - not the same as that read or educated. A part of society has developed a stereotype that a smart person must know physics, mathematics and similar disciplines, do essay writing, etc. However, if a person knows a lot, this only speaks of his good memory and, perhaps, of his desire to learn something.

It is also wiser to call a person who can use his knowledge, on the basis of which he can produce his point of view on certain issues, to make some logical inferences and make decisions. Terms can be made both template and non-trivial but in most cases lead to the correct result. An intelligent person sees his nose further (looking out of perspective), unlike most people. He is able to analyze events and distinguish between essential and immaterial.

How to negotiate with your mind correctly?

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These negotiations should be similar to negotiations with the child. So read a few writing tips:

1) Do not quarrel

Do not quarrel your brain. The more violence you apply to your mind, the more reluctant it will work.

2) Visualize the purpose

Just like a child, you have to show your mind visually - what benefit will it get from doing your job. You can explain to the child that, having received a good education and have achieved success, it will be able to continue to buy a car, for example. The word success does not mean anything to the child. But he will know that in order to get a car, he needs to learn well. This will move him in the right direction.

Find out where your prosperous friends work and what their salary is. Then imagine a laptop of your dreams, the price of which is equal to your monthly salary. The desire to buy it will make you follow the footsteps of your acquaintances and doing any good paper writing. You seem to motivate yourself.

3) Assist

If you send a child to work in a sunshine, and at this time you will sit in the shade, sipping cold lemonade, it may seem that you are mocking her and she will stop working. If you help the child, she will follow your directions with greater desire.

Similarly, you must work with your mind. For example, if you read, then read, and do not chew mentally in the clouds.

4) Reward

Each child requires a reward after completing work. Children may not talk about it aloud, but they want encouragement.

Think of the reward for your mind. For example, you can snooze for 30 minutes.

5) Raise your interest

Children do not like home cleaning, it's too boring for them. But if you distribute the room between the children and assign a reward for the cleanest room in the form of a weekly exemption from cleaning, the children will have an incentive, they will become more interesting and work will be done at a moment's notice.

When reading a book, you can submit characters to your friends and acquaintances.

6) Do not plan too far forward

Children hate when they are instructed to do many things at once. They will last until the first task, so as not to step on to others.



Do not try to solve several tasks at the same time, focus on something for one.

Those are some tips you can try. If you have other tips, please share with us.

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